Stop chasing – start attracting queen

I took a break from sending these weekly love notes, and I’m so grateful for the time I’ve taken to nurture my well-being and create more space in my life. I flew to Ubud and enjoyed a month in the spiritual mountains frequently cleansing at their ancient temples, doing cross-fit daily, building muscle, seeing healers, pilgrimaging to sacred sites and organising our retreat for June.

It’s such a beautiful phenomenon, when you create space in your life, things can flow to you. So if you feel you are pushing forward trying harder but haven’t got the results you desire try some of the following:

1) When you start bleeding take at least one day out, no tech, no work, just rest and release

2) Meditating in the morning to release all the mental emotional baggage

3) Get off tech by 7pm. Look at the sun first thing in the morning instead of your phone. This activates your pineal gland.

4) Do things that move your energy: dance, swim, sing, play music, self pleasure, nature walks.

5) Make sure you are not ‘producing’ all the time which is so normalised in our western culture. The feminine is about going inside, receptivity, feeling, space, death, the void – so sit in this space of ‘being’ feelig life move through you.

6) Get away from your ‘routine’ life. Go to another country, on a retreat, or anywhere in nature. It’s proven that your brain creates new neural pathways when you get out of your everyday life. Hello newness.

The above is so crucial for cultivating abundance and vitality. Shifting from thinking you will get further by always producing is the trap. This is stemming from ‘scarcity’ (fear) which we have all been indoctrinated into.

It’s essential for us to understand the art of ‘letting go’ in various aspects of our lives – whether it’s getting over a hurtful remark, supporting a sick family member, dealing with a client setback, or navigating a breakup.

Failure to release these burdens weighs us down and erodes our vitality. Imagine our life force as 100 units of creative energy – holding onto past grievances or worries consumes a significant portion of this energy, leaving us depleted and makes us ‘push’ forward to ‘try’ and create what we desire. But it will always lead to burn out.

This emphasizes the significance of setting boundaries, articulating our needs, taking breaks, and releasing draining influences. It’s a simple yet vital principle that often conflicts with the societal expectation of prioritizing others over ourselves.

For this reason, I’ve created “Becoming Magnetic,” a transformative program empowering women to shed past constraints, break free from ancestral limitations, and step into their inherent magnetic shakti selves. By aligning with this energy, we attract opportunities, abundance, and growth, elevating us beyond the drain of burnout. We also let go of so much past emotional baggage during the week that abundance and opportunities naturally flow in.

PS: These are the exact concepts we explore in our “Becoming Magnetic” Retreat June 8-14 and so much more. Limited spots are available, so click here to apply and embark on this incredible journey with us.

Love,
Alexis
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